ATTENTION TO ALL GUYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i am freaking sick n tired of talking to guys already…it’s like the more i talk to em, the more they get on my nerves..i’ll tell ya why…normally, they belong to 1 of these 2 categories :
1) The Egoist/Narcissist
- these guys just love talking about themselves throughout the conversations…they talk about THEIR achievements, THEIR goals, THEIR cars, THEIR gadgets, THEIR whatsoever, without even making the effort to get to know the other party whom they’re having a conversation with…yes, they don’t care about your day, your hobbies and your dreams as long as they have a listener, listening to them glorifying themselves..
2) The Interviewee
- sometimes i wonder if these guys are armed with any communication skills at all coz they are the type who will just answer d question dat u posed to em n nothing more, just like in an interview…to illustrate my point, here’s an example:
gal: so how was your day?
guy: it was ok
gal: that’s good…and what did u think abt the exam dat we sat for yesterday?
guy: it was tough but i think i could pass it
gal:……………………………
as u can see, this stupid guy didn’t give a shit about the gal’s day nor her performance during the exam…he just answered d questions as they were, leaving the poor gal speechless…sometimes, she’ll have to be d one keeping the conversation going which can get very tiring (emotionally)..come on la guys, do u expect the gal to say ” how was yr day? n please ask abt my day too”
if i were to deduce something from the behaviour of these 2 types of guy, i would say that they are not interested in talking with that girl but why so? could it be she talks too fast or she is too ugly to have a conversation wid? it doesnt take a genius to know dat the latter is d real answer…why? coz by nature, guys are visual creatures…if the gal is not hot, y would he wanna waste his time talking to her? so it’s best to keep d conversation brief, forcing her to end d conversation immediately..if dat’s not d real reason, then is he lacking in communication skills?
sadly, 90% of my guy frens belong to one of those categories n this frustrates me a lot bcoz on one hand, they complain to me dat it’s hard for em to find a gf, on another hand, they act like they dun care about you at all…you guys really think gals like listening to u yakking about yourself? no, we want someone to show some interest in us too by asking us questions related to US..and most importantly, we want u to LISTEN to us when we’re talking…nothing annoys a gal more than having a guy interrupting her while she’s talking…
having guy frens like this, i think it’s best i spend more time talking to my gal frens instead..unlike those selfish, self-centered motherf*ckers, at least my gal frens show some concern towards me even if i do not look my best on dat particular day…come to think of it, i’ve wasted a hell lot of time to keep d conversation going for those motherf*ckers, so as of today, i refuse to talk any guys infinitely………i can do dat because i can…..
November 7th, 2009 at 7:04 pm
Nine words women use…
(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don’t Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That’s Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That’s okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you’re welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says ‘Thanks a lot’ - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say ‘you’re welcome’. that will bring on a ‘whatever’).
(8) Whatever: Is a woman’s way of saying F— YOU!
(9) Don’t worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking ‘What’s wrong?’ For the woman’s response refer to # 3.
December 6th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
Hey, wow…long time we’ve not contact each other and somehow the sexiest issue comes up. Hey, not all the guys are like that…maybe u should try chatting with me personally when u have the time. Just give me a call okay? For old time sake, pluz…need some catching up.